Monday, January 31, 2011

Observations

Dear ladies,

You do not need to wear uncomfortable shoes, half an outfit in cold windy weather, and a pound of make up to be pretty. Under certain circumstances, yes! It may be appropriate and highly appreciated, but really? Just saw a woman with 7 inch platforms with a skirt that barely covered her ass cheeks. It's not even 50 degrees with wind so it feels like 30 out there.

I'm not most guys. So I guess it does nothing for me. Nice to look at sometimes, but nothing that appeals to me for more than a moment.

They say the first look a woman takes at a man, they will know if they will sleep with them. It may not be that moment, that night, or even that month. But they say a woman just knows if they will.

Good thing that doesn't apply to men. Thank god not every woman wears skimpy clothes or shows off what could be covered and left for the imagination. Most men would screw a snake if they could find a hole.

When women takes a glance at a man then instantly decide if they might share the forbidden fruit with them...

men at the same moment.... shallow men

Wonder if she's cute enough for the lights on or off.
If she is one of clingy chicks.
How many high fives or fist pounds his friends will give
.... and how kinky she will get

I've always been into more down to earth girls. Believe it or not, there are guys who just enjoy a nice conversation or simple companionship. The physical part of a relationship is inevitable. It's the other things like talks, laughs, smiles and even the bad. When you need to rant or scream. You want someone there through the good and the bad. If they are still there when you vent your frustrations. Then you know you got.something special.
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enigmas and friends

Life throws turns and curves at you daily. Mini enigmas. To test your will, your thresholds. Most more minor that others but still a test to see where your break point for the day is.

I tend to go through phases with friends. I can honestly say I don't have many "good" friends. I have a lot of friends I don't see or talk to much but we can hang out and pick up like we just saw each other the other day. There are a couple of people i can confide in, tell them anything.

There is/was one person I had looked forward talking to daily. All day everyday. For a week we were more than friends. And it was probably the best week I had in a long time. We went so fast so soon. I know I had just recently got out of a relationship but I wouldn't have minded if I got back into something serious. But we weren't on the same page. I think at one point we were both content with where the future was taking us, but we ended up not wanting the same thing. It's hard not talking to her as much, or at all it looks like. Probably why I started blogging. To fill the void of those daily conversations. I'll miss talking to her. Telling me her thoughts and me sharing mine.

An unlikely union. I asked her I'd the time was right could she see herself with me. She said yes. Only problem was I already saw myself with her. That's me leaping. Diving head first hoping I wasnt alone.

I still have hope. I'm in no rush. If it was meant to be then it will happen.
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defining myself

Decided to try blogging 
maybe share my thoughts, moods, rants 


mood : numb
Quote of the day :
"Happy are those who dream dreams and are ready to pay the price to make them come true."- Leon J. Suenes
I seem to put myself out there too fast, too aggressive. I think of myself as a passionate person, and it seems to be my downfall. I go 100 mph, because I see the finish line faster than others. Most like to take things day by day, and I try to so many times in my life, but it seems to be an issue. I am a hopeless romantic. If i do see the chance of being happy, I sometimes leap before I test the water. Most of the time, I'm jumping alone. One time, I had someone holding my hand as we leaped, and it lasted nearly 4 years without a single regret.
I tend to put others first before myself. Always been that way. Another downfall.
I try to better myself. I read 20-100 famous or life inspiring quotes a day to inspire myself.
Guess thats all for now